I am the youngest of four children, the only daughter after a string of rough and tumble boys.

To say that I was pampered by my parents and brothers growing up, would be an understatement.

To say that I am unaware of the hold I have on my father, would be the understatement of the century.

The Bible points us toward the role of fathers. In Proverbs 22:6 we read, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Fathers are entrusted with the great responsibility of nurturing, teaching, and setting a godly example. This calling is in no way easy; it requires great patience and humility, and when lived out faithfully it becomes a beautiful reflection of our Heavenly Father’s own love and care.

As a stubborn, strong-willed teenager, I rarely saw eye-to-eye with my father. I perceived him to be too strict, too mean, too rigid – essentially too opposed to the things I wanted, which in later years I realised were not at all the right things. Regrettably, I was often disrespectful and rebellious, and did not appreciate my father’s discipline. Yet, amidst the countless tantrums I have thrown and the heartache I have caused, my father has never loved me any less than the day he first set eyes on me. He has seen and experienced me at my absolute worst, and is still one of the people who loves me the most. My father may not be perfect, but he is a perfect example of how earthly fathers point us to our Heavenly Father.

I am very grateful for the relationship I have with my earthly father. However, not every story of fatherhood is the same. For some, this day is filled with gratitude and joy as we remember fathers who were present and supportive. For others, this day may bring grief through loss, absence, or unpleasant memories. As a church, we should rejoice with those who celebrate and grieve alongside those who mourn. In every circumstance, we remind ourselves of the ultimate Father who will never leave nor forsake us, and whose love is perfect.

As we celebrate Fathers’ Day, may we remember to express gratitude to the fathers in our lives – be it a simple word of thanks, a prayer on their behalf, or a gesture of love. May we encourage the men in our midst to walk faithfully in their calling, leaning not on their own strength or understanding, but on the wisdom and grace of God. And may we as a church community continue to support these men, whilst recognizing the challenges they face and appreciating the importance of their role. Whether they are biological fathers, grandfathers, stepfathers, spiritual mentors, or father figures, we give thanks for their influence and presence in our journey of life and faith.

All of my life, the one person I have never feared rejection from, is my father. Perhaps it is due to an innate sense of being loved wholly and unconditionally.  From a very young age, I always knew with confidence that if I were ever a prodigal child, I would never return to crumbs but to a great feast.

Being my father’s daughter has given me a sense of security and confidence that I am forever grateful for.

More importantly, being my father’s daughter has opened my eyes to the unimaginably joyful privilege of being God’s child. If an earthly father can give good gifts and provide a warm embrace, how much more will our Heavenly Father meet our needs? He calls each of us His beloved children with an unwavering love and mercies that abound. In Him we find the perfect example of fatherhood, and in His presence we will always have a home.

Happy Fathers’ Day to all the fathers and father figures amongst us. May God bless and strengthen you as you continue to lead and love His children. We love you and appreciate you very much!